My reflection

The 10th Greatest Gifts I give to my children - Steven W. Vannoy 5 Powerful Parenting Tips : 1. Forward focus How to focus our minds and energy so that we keep moving forward : - We can only focus on one thing at the time - We can avoid a "don't" - We go toward what we focus on as we learn with focus tool, we give the children to learn about  Optimism, as our children learn not to stay stuck on what's wrong and what's can't be done, instead focus on what's working and what can be done Problem solving, as they learn to look for solutions rather than focus on the problem Self esteem, as they focus on what's good about themselves Lack of defensiveness, as they are not looking for who to blame or why they are a victim Risk taking, creativity and a joyful attitude " It's a simple reality of life - what you focus on is where you will go, focus on your problem and they will loom larger every day.  Focus on solutions and the proble...